I recently pondered what’s wrong with the world. Initially, I thought that there is no one to blame. It seems as though the entire world (society) is running against the wind, against decades of traditions and values. If you may, its gravitating towards chaos (in a sense of disorder), but that could be its own discussion.
After some thought, I came to the conclusion that driving force behind society’s downward plummet, is communication. There are two sides to communication: communication, and miscommunication (or lack of). All forms of communication contribute to the whole, inclusive of verbal, body language, written, visual.
Why can’t we get along? Well, lack of communication or miscommunication. The saying “A picture is worth a thousand words†may be too frequently heard, but is applicable to our demise. An even more applicable cliché would be the phase “Think before you speak.†Often we jump to conclusion and bungee jump to a response. In a given situation, we are not likely to know all the details that would be affecting the subject of attention. Ergo, we do not understand. Asking more questions and giving more thought results in more knowledge and more understanding. With a proper understanding, one may more accurately respond in a proper manner. The lesson here is best quoted from Stephen R. Covey, “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.â€
Why is society degrading? The simple answer is communication. While we are failing to communicate, we are communicating the wrong message. For instance, who decided that the general public wants to see advertisements on buildings, buses, TV, the internet, etc.? I will never say I want to see advertisements, ad banners, or spam. In reality, the advertisement world is driven (mostly) by people being greedy. While we are giving up some of the better values, being greedy is still considered bad.
Now introduce the internet, or more specifically the World Wide Web (WWW). The inventor of the World Wide Web was Tim Berners-Lee (I might as well go ahead and acknowledge that Al Gore was not the inventor of the internet). Berners-Lee envisioned the web as a medium through which to share ideas and information freely through collaboration. At this point in time, the web is ever quickly approaching that dream.
The internet is by most means, the fastest way to communicate with someone. Various forms of communications exist through the internet: E-mail, IRC, Instant Messaging, Forums, Blogs. Anyone can say whatever they want (with exceptions) and have an unimaginable number of people see that message, with little effort. This has the same effect as giving the wrong response, as mentioned above. To instantly communicate is to instantly miscommunicate [sic] (Instant communication is instant miscommunication).
I’ve given the internet as an example. Other mediums through which communications take place are also a means of miscommunication. This includes, but is not limited to television, phone, newspaper, and books. It is also good to acknowledge that all of these mediums can convey factual information, while the person on the other end may misinterpret it. You can try to make everything crystal clear and it can still appear clear as mud on the other end. Nothing is foolproof (except mud?).
In perspective, our communications are evolving society into something it never was. The ideas expressed today were not expressed a decade ago. While some may consider these previously mentioned advances in communications as an improvement to society, I consider them as a main contributing factor to what’s wrong with the world.
This is my opinion. If you don’t like it, leave a comment and flame me.